"Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life."
Proverbs 4:23

 

Shannon is a best-selling author, speaker, lay counselor, and advocate for healthy sexuality with a master’s degree in counseling/human relations from Liberty University.  She has spoken to youth, college students, and adults since 1989 and her passions include:

  • Challenging the body of Christ to embrace a life of sexual integrity

  • Encouraging married couples in their pursuit of sexual and emotional intimacy

  • Ministering to women who have looked for love in all the wrong places

  • Equipping parents to instill sexual values in children at an early age

  • Inspiring others to make Jesus Christ the primary Love of their life

Her passion for healthy sexuality didn’t begin inside church walls, however, but in mortuary college. Her first career choice, becoming a mortician, led Ethridge to work on dead bodies. Many she embalmed were young people who had died from AIDS or committed suicide as a result of an HIV positive diagnosis. Because of her own promiscuous teenage years, she knew that it was only by the grace of God that she was standing over the embalming table rather than laying on top of it. God used these experiences to usher her into youth ministry, and later into Teen Mania Ministries where she has taught and counseled college-age women since 1999.

Shannon is the Gold-Medallion award-winning author of 18 books, including the best-selling Every Woman’s Battle series and her 2007 release, Completely His: Loving Jesus Without Limits and four companion devotionals. Her books have sold over one million copies and been reprinted in multiple languages, offering healing and hope to women all over the world. Her newest book, The Sexually Confident Wife, is due to release in September 2008 through Random House.

Shannon has been interviewed on various international radio & television shows such as Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, Life Today with James & Betty Robison, FamilyLife Today with Dennis Rainey, and New Life Live! with Stephen Arterburn. Shannon has also been featured on the cover of Today’s Christian Woman Magazine.

Although grateful for the opportunities God has given her to influence this generation as a writer and speaker, Shannon remains most passionate about her primary callings -- as a wife and best friend to her husband of 18 years, Greg, and a mother and cheerleader to their children, Erin (16) and Matthew (13). She and her family reside in a log cabin among the piney woods of east Texas.

 

~Speaking Topics~

* COMPLETELY HIS

Loving Jesus Without Limits

Do you have a tendency to look at God as some distant disciplinarian who is as emotionally disconnected from you as perhaps your earthly father was?  When people talk about the “lavish love of God,” does that concept sometimes elude you or even bore you by now?  Perhaps it’s time you examined your current level of intimacy with Jesus Christ, and recognized that He’s not just calling you to be His follower, His slave, His friend, or even His daughter.  He’s also calling you to be His beloved bride -- His holy helpmate!  Throughout scripture we are referred to as the “bride of Christ,” so this seminar is designed to help us develop a much greater head-knowledge as well as heart-knowledge about how to embrace and live out that incredibly fulfilling role.  An optional “wedding ceremony & reception” can also be incorporated into a weekend conference so that women can experience a sweet foretaste of the “wedding supper of the Lamb!”  (Revelation 19:6-9)  

 

* EVERY WOMAN'S BATTLE

Discovering God's Plan for Sexual and Emotional Fulfillment

Women are walking out of marriages today in record numbers, in pursuit of the “love” they feel entitled to but that their husbands can’t seem to provide enough of. Even if they remain committed to their marriage, women often look outside of the relationship for emotional connection, thinking that her actions are completely innocent because she’s not sleeping around. But when does an affair begin? Not with the first forbidden touch…but with the first forbidden thought. Unexpectedly, you find yourself enjoying a powerful emotional bond with another man. You feel like you matter to someone again. And the door you thought was locked so firmly–the door to sexual infidelity–is suddenly ajar. The only way women can survive the intense struggle for sexual integrity is by guarding not just your body, but your mind and heart as well. Also receive practical tips for tearing down walls, rebuilding bridges, and connecting more intimately with your husband once again.

* EVERY SINGLE WOMAN'S BATTLE

Powerful Tools For Guarding Your Body, Mind, and Heart

Remaining pure as a single, divorced, or widowed adult isn't easy in a culture that encourages women to use their bodies to gain power and personal fulfillment. The longing for emotional and physical connection can gradually and subtly lead you into compromises you never intended to make. But you can resist the pressures-or reclaim your purity-by building a strong foundation of integrity. This session is designed specifically for single women, and will give you the tools you need to resist temptation and help you discover true fulfillment.

* EVERY YOUNG WOMAN'S BATTLE

Guarding Your Mind, Heart, and Body in a Sex-Saturated World

Guys Aren’t the Only Ones Fighting a Battle for Purity. The world we live in promotes sex as the answer to just about everything. The pressure to go along with the crowd is greater than ever before, and it’s easy to compromise in little ways that are a lot more harmful than they seem. You and your friends may become caught up in destructive relationships or sexual activities without even knowing how you got there. You just want to be normal–to fit in, to be liked, to look attractive to the opposite sex. But are you paying too high a price? Now is the time to stand strong. Learn how to protect yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually–and how to get your need for love met in positive, healthy ways that leave you truly satisfied. (This topic is appropriate for junior high, senior high, and college age.)

* PREPARING YOUR DAUGHTER FOR EVERY WOMAN'S BATTLE

Creative Conversations about Sexual and Emotional Integrity

Where Will Your Daughter Turn for Answers About Sex? Long before we may realize it, our daughters are bombarded with messages about sex–from friends, advertisers, media icons, and more. All of this input–along with the whirlwind of emotions that accompany puberty–can leave them confused, filled with unasked questions about boys, dating, sex, and their own value. While you may believe that your preteen or early adolescent is too young for “the talk,” now is the perfect time for creative conversations about sexuality. By introducing key principles and truths during these teachable years, you can lay a foundation that will help your daughter withstand the inevitable pressures young women face. (This topic is best suited for parents of 5-12 year-old children).

* EVERY WOMAN'S MARRIAGE

Igniting the Joy and Passion You Both Desire

Are you a “desperate housewife,” committed to marriage yet longing for a deeper, more intimate connection with your husband? Believe it or not, you can have the marriage you long for–if you’re willing to take desperate measures. If you’re ready to stop the blame game and pursue the marriage of your dreams, let Shannon Ethridge show you how to reignite your relationship with spiritual, emotional, and physical passion. Drawing on real-life stories from both men and women, as well as lessons from her own less-than-satisfying early years of marriage, she offers penetrating insights about what it takes to nurture a dynamic marriage.


* TAKING YOUR MARRIAGE OVER THE TOP

A Sex & Oneness Conference for Couples

Shannon combines incredible insights from her book, Every Woman’s Marriage, and from Fred Stoeker and Stephen Arterburn’s book, Every Man’s Marriage, creating a wonderfully entertaining, insightful, and dynamic ministry experience for married couples.  Husbands and wives receive many fresh revelations about the sexual and emotional needs of both men and women, thus become better equipped to inspire rather than require the intimacy and fulfillment they crave in their marriage relationship.

 

* THE SEXUALLY CONFIDENT WIFE

Overcoming the Hurdles that Hold Women Back

Emotional baggage from a promiscuous past… excess weight or poor body image… haunting memories of past sexual abuse… feelings of sexual shame or guilt… long is the list of things that often hinder a woman’s sexual   self-confidence.  Far too many women resign themselves to the idea that they either simply don’t like sex, or they just have to submit to their husband’s desires out of a sense of “marital duty.”  However, God designed women to ENJOY sex, and sexual confidence is every woman’s birthright!  It CAN be reclaimed by healing wounds from the past and overcoming the common hurdles that hold us back in the bedroom.  (This presentation can be custom-tailored to fit a co-ed audience and called “The Sexually Confident Couple.”)

 

* BEST SEX YOUTH CONFERENCE

How to Have the Best Sex… By Waiting Until Marriage!

Long before Shannon became a best-selling author, this was her signature message — encouraging young people understand healthy sexuality from Theological, Social, Medical, Emotional, and Relational perspectives.  Presented at hundreds of churches since 1996, this high-energy 12-hour event (presented in one or two-day formats) is incredibly fun and enlightening for teenage boys and girls, teaching them to have respect not just for themselves, but for one another.  (A 90-minute parent presentation the night before this event is highly recommended.)

* WOMEN IN LEADERSHIP

Discovering a Woman’s True Place in this World

Do you believe God has a calling on your life that will usher you into a position of leadership?  Have you feared that you might overstep your bounds as a woman in ministry?  Do you wonder if a woman’s place should be strictly in the home?  Through properly exegeting sensitive passages of scripture, Shannon Ethridge will set you free to   pursue your calling in this world while properly submitting to male authority figures at the same time.  Women don’t have to remain silent in their homes, barefoot and pregnant.  Nor do they need to try to dominate the world “feminazi” style.  There is a beautiful balance that is created when a woman simply recognizes her place in the gospel of Jesus Christ.

 

Each of these presentations can be custom-tailored to fit the following formats:

* 30-minute sermon     * 45, 60, or 90-minute presentation     * Workshop Series

* Half-day or All-day Seminar     * Weekend conference       

 

~What Others Say~

 

“Shannon is perhaps the best new female communicator on the Christian speaking scene. I have heard and hired many great speakers and none of them are better than what Shannon brings to a presentation.”

- Stephen Arterburn, founder of Women of Faith and New Life Ministries, radio host, and best-selling author

“We will be using Shannon Ethridge again and again. It is rare to find an author who has great content who is also a master communicator. As keynote of our Thrive! Simulcast, she held the attention of all attendees both young and old, man and woman. From my wife and daughter to my tenured clients, all have given a resounding endorsement to this author and speaker.”

- Mark Cole, Vice President of INJOY

“Shannon Ethridge is a delightful person and a captivating speaker. Her presentation was engaging, humorous, and carried great weight, because it came from personal experience and conviction.”

- Dennis Gaines, BIOLA University / Talbot School of Theology

“Shannon understands women — their needs, their desires, their questions, their concerns — and addresses them honestly, from the platform and from her heart, with messages that are content-filled and life changing!”

- Liz Curtis Higgs, award-winning speaker and best-selling author of Bad Girls of the Bible

“Shannon consistently creates a life-changing atmosphere, giving our young women a 5, 10, or even 15 year head start in the areas of personal discipline and moral excellence. Her joy, contagious positive spirit, and unbridled passion for Christ will inspire any group to reach for the stars.”

- Heath Stoner, Teen Mania’s Honor Academy

“We received a huge blessing from having Shannon speak at our 2006 Ladies’ Retreat. Shannon possesses a unique ability to connect with women’s hearts by talking openly of her own struggles and by offering practical insights from the Bible. We continue to hear testimonies of how Shannon’s teachings have strengthened marriages and families within our church.”

- Shawn Switzer, Gateway Community Church